Are you getting ready for your first date? In the Facebook age, getting a date has become easier. But making it a successful as well as memorable one needs to be dealt with extra care. So go through the following dating tips applicable for both men and women.
Do your homework
Work on confidence: Confidence is considered to be one of the qualities that attracts people. So be confident.
Take the first step: If you find someone attractive, instead of waiting for that person to make the first move you do it. It’s risky but highly productive.
Be open-minded: If you are approached by someone, give him/her a chance. Even if it’s unlikely pairing, go for it as he might be the one.
Be prepared to face the worse: If it’s your blind date, then don’t put your expectations high. Even if it’s an unlikely pairing be polite with your partner.
[box_dark]What to ask???[/box_dark]
– What do you like to do to chill out?
It is a good way to start with. This question will also help you find out whether you two are compatible or not. So, knowing his/her hobbies will give you some idea about how well you get with him.
– What job is it that you do?
We often get to know personality of people by knowing about their profession. For instance, if the person is a lawyer, he will be organized but he’ll also be naturally quite argumentative.
– Tell me about your family.
It is important to find out what sort of relationship he/she shares with family. If he/she has a good one with his/her parents and you do too, then you’ll likely bond well.
– If you could do anything in the world, what would it be?
This can help you to know his/her aspirations. Moreover, this question will help you know your partner and their approach towards life more.
– Where does this date rate on your first date scale?
This is a risky question but this will help you read your partner’s mind and know what he/she think of you. It will give you an indication of how well the date went and what you did right.
[box_dark]Avoid dating disasters[/box_dark]
Here are some of the quick tips that will help you avoiding disasters on your D-day.
Time and Place: Both time and place chosen for date must suit both of you. Decide and go to a place that both of you are familiar with, so that you don’t have trouble finding it later. Make sure that the time suits both of you.
Conversation: Neither too much talking nor silence is good for your date. So, it’s better to indulge in healthy conversation. Talk about various subjects to keep the conversation flowing. If you’ve met via online, browse your partner’s profile to know more about his/her interests. Talking about your ex and weather is a bug no no.
Dress Comfortably: Look your best but make sure you can carry yourself comfortably. Don’t wear something that could provide a wardrobe malfunction moment. Apart from outfit, wear matching accessories and comfortable shoes.
No Alcohols, No Smoking: Avoid alcohols or smoking before going on a date. Drinking and smoking are big dating turn offs.
No Sex: If you want to see your date again, then don’t get intimate with him/her on your first date.